I cannot forgive myself for not seeing my mother when she was sick in bed.
母亲病的时候我没能去看她,为这件事我永远不能原谅我自己。
Third, listen and be quiet while others are talking! Don't interrupt, saying, Oh yes, that reminds me of
“啊,是呀,这使我想起……”然后开始谈自己的事情。如果某个人有严重的问题,或是生病,或是悲伤,这时你就不要谈起多年前在你自己的生活中发生的类似的事情。